The very thought of the word "fraud" in any sense is not at all pleasant. As private detectives, we face more disappointed lovers than most other professionals, which can be quite exhausting. The crying, the self-deprecation, the insecurity. These people can often be difficult to deal with. We’ve all known someone who’s been a victim of cheating, or maybe you’ve even experienced it yourself. In 41% of marriages, at least one spouse admits to being unfaithful. Discretion and professionalism are guaranteed in our investigations. As private detectives, we deal with sensitive issues and we need to be clear and concise in communication. The last thing you need is for the client to confront their spouse with the wrong information because they misunderstand you. As private detectives, we deal with sensitive issues and we need to be clear and concise in communication. The last thing you need is for the client to confront their spouse with the wrong information because they misunderstand you. You probably remember your lessons from elementary school about sympathies, which are bad for someone because of their personal accident. First, sympathy helps you to understand more clearly the perception of others about you. If you take the time to think about the other person's situation and look at the world through their eyes, you will understand much better what they think of you. Sympathy also increases your ability to communicate clearly. If you are considering seeing a person about a situation, you can better explain things without stepping on your toes. What you may not know is that sympathy or empathy can actually make you a better, more efficient private detective.
Our whole job is to find evidence of the affair and convince our client that it is true. Using sympathy or empathy can mean much less arguing with clients! Finally, sympathy can equip you to better tolerate negative people and situations. Remember how horrible someone’s situation is and it can increase your tolerance for difficult people. Whenever you lose patience with a difficult client, don't forget to take a walk in their position. Most of the time people go through their mess. They behave horribly because they are experiencing something terrible.
Let’s take a look specifically at clients who come to you about a cheating partner. These clients are often embarrassed and feel desperate. They don’t understand how this situation could’ve happened to them of all people. They may even feel like they’re paranoid or going crazy!
We are dealing with people who are going through the worst-case scenario in a relationship outside of someone dying. In fact, 33% of these marriages will end because of the stepping out. Let’s look at a few common signs a partner is unfaithful to remind you what a person experiences when they’re being cheated on:
Their partner is often bored with them
Their sex life is non-existent or filled with strange, new requests
Their partner is critical and quarreling more often than usual
Their partner is lying and being secretive
Strange charges appear on their credit card statements
Their partner is sneakily no longer wearing a wedding/engagement ring
A shared computer suddenly has two user accounts, and one is password protected
They may even have recently contracted an STD with no new sexual partners
These clients need some of our help!
People will not stop cheating, and they will have to constantly tell the news to their spouses. Using sympathy will allow us to continue doing business and give us the opportunity to help people learn about infidelity in a better way than they would otherwise do.
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